Keep Your Plans To Yourself; (Know Body Wants To Know)
A man came to Bishop Oyedepo of living faith worldwide that what is the next thing he’s about to do now? That he seems to have done all? He simply replied: “just stay put and watch!”
At times we often feel like telling people about what we are doing, this is natural. We often want to share our passions and our goals with people. But guess what? It is best not to. You shouldn't. The best thing is to let people find out for themselves. Don’t even give them a clue.
Don’t think it is unfair, it is better and cool. The issue is, if you tell them, they’ll simply shy away…
Generally we humans don’t like to be preached at. We like to believe that we are just cool at what we are and what we are doing and nobody has the right to tell us what we should do. If you keep telling people about “what new” about you, they’ll label you an arrogant, conceited or self-righteous or permit me to use the word “a better than thou character.”
So the best thing is simply, don’t preach, propagate, try to convert, Shout from the rooftops or even mention this…
Picture this: people really asking probing questions of what really happened to you: How come you are now a better person? And what you’ll simply say is that you are just lucky, and you just got this miracle glow that make you become a better and happier, livelier person. This simple trait will make your personality more appealing…
Don’t waste your time trying to go on details of what really happened to you because that’s really not their business: they don’t want to know about it.
How do I know this? Because everyone is more concerned and centered on what is going on in their lives even though they may act like they are concerned about you, the central truth is that they really do not care about that so much. Everyone has enough going on their lives and they don’t want you to bother them with yours… that is human nature and there is nothing really bad about it. It’s all cool.
Knowing this will put you in the best position in dealing with people and knowing how to deal with people will make you become more successful and a better, happier person. This principle really works.
The rule is simple: keep it in the dark. Just get on with it quietly and go about your daily life cool. Remember: don’t tell anyone anything.
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